Thursday, October 8, 2009

Open Doors

A woman walks towards a building with a man a few paces ahead of her. Her hands are full and the man reaches the door shortly before her. She glances up to analyze how she will maneuver her hands free to hold the door. The man rushes through and in a short moment, without so much as looking behind him, gives the door the slightest extra push, such that the woman is able to quickly slide through before it closes. This is a prime example of the infamous “half-hearted push.”

Women are not expecting a tall, dark and handsome man on his white stallion to sweep them off their feet, whisking them off to happy ever after. No, as nice as that situation sounds, our expectations have become much lower. To have these half-hearted pushes turn into a man holding the door wide open, acknowledging the presence of a woman, would do wonders for our femininity. Men, fear not to be courteous, and dare I say, chivalrous.

6 comments:

Molly said...

Great Post!

Andrea G said...

Thank you!

Nicholas Chan said...

How true, but sadly from experience of the times these days, any show of chivalry not coupled with a handsome man is seen by most women as an ugly man's chauvinistic way to weasel himself into her good books.

Some even go to the extent to claim that being chivalrous is an immature and childish means by men to undermine feminism. So what is a man to do in these modern, contradictory, relative times?

Molly said...

I think all you can do is stay away from all woman who think that way.

Nicholas Chan said...

Molly: Which in a sad way, is the growing numbers of the majority of women in the city.

Andrea G said...

Ah...but I promise those few out there with an appreciation of chivalry are worth the wait! Don't give up!